Why Bother Coming Out? 
This article gives some clear and valuable advice about whether one should come out in certain situations, and if so how and when to do so most effectively.
http://www.firelily.com/gender/gianna/why.come.out.htmlTelling Parents 
How and when to come out to your parents as transgendered.
http://www.firelily.com/gender/gianna/parents.html
TransFamily Of Cleveland - Letters 
A resource of letters, written by real people, to either come out or explain the coming out of a transgendered loved one.
http://www.transfamily.org/letters.htm
Post Your Story 
A space where trans and GLB youth can post coming-out and self-realization experiences.
http://www.geocities.com/seanmiller32/post.html